Style
Style is where most people expose that they don’t actually know themselves. They just copy what looks good on someone else and hope it translates. It doesn’t. I don’t follow trends. I don’t dress for mass approval. I dress in a way that makes sense on me. My coloring, my energy, my presence. If it doesn’t align with that, I don’t care how popular it is, it looks off. My base is always neutrals. Black, cream, soft browns. Neutrals don’t fight for attention. They let you be the focal point instead of the outfit wearing you. I lean feminine. Skirts, dresses, soft silhouettes. A dress that fits perfectly. It’s insanely important that your clothes fit well. And then there’s your accent color. Mines red. I don’t overuse it. I place it. Red on olive skin deepens everything. It brings warmth into your face, sharpens contrast, makes you look more alive without needing a full dramatic look. A red lip, a small detail, that’s enough. Finding a signature color that pairs well with your undertones is a must. That’s the difference between someone who understands styling and someone who just adds more. More isn’t better. Better is better. Most people’s problem is they’re not dressing for their actual features. They’re dressing for an aesthetic they saw online that wasn’t built for them. Figure out what colors and silhouettes work on you and refine it until it looks expensive. Even if it’s not. What colors make your eyes pop? What silhouettes make you look more fit? What outfits make people look at you longer without knowing why? That’s your blueprint. Once you have that, you stop experimenting randomly. You start repeating with strategy. And that’s when people start associating you with a certain look. Consistency creates identity. Identity creates recognition. And recognition is what actually makes someone “stylish.” Not trends. Not price tags. Not how many outfits you have. Just how clearly you understand yourself, and how well you execute it.